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    Self and Identity

    Understanding who you are at your core -- your values, your story, and the emotional intelligence that shapes every relationship.

    The Person You Bring Into Every Room Is the Person Every Relationship Has to Work With.
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    The Person You Bring Into Every Room Is the Person Every Relationship Has to Work With.

    The quality of your connections is directly related to the quality of your self-knowledge. Dr. James Borishade makes the case for why inner work is not a personal luxury, it is the most relational thing you can do.

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    You Are Not Your Job Title, and When It Goes Away, You Will Find Out Who You Actually Are.
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    You Are Not Your Job Title, and When It Goes Away, You Will Find Out Who You Actually Are.

    Identity built on role rather than character is identity that collapses under pressure. Dr. James Borishade examines what happens when the titles are stripped away, and what it takes to build a self that holds.

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    95% of People Think They Are Self-Aware. Research Says Only 10% Actually Are.
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    95% of People Think They Are Self-Aware. Research Says Only 10% Actually Are.

    That gap, between who we believe we are and who we actually are, does not stay contained to our inner life. It shows up in every conversation we have, every conflict we misread, every relationship we cannot figure out why it keeps producing the same results.

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