Marriage and Couples

Insights and tools for building deeper connection, navigating conflict, and strengthening the bond between partners.

A Marriage Without Friction Is a Marriage Without Traction

We have been sold a lie that healthy couples do not fight. A sixteen-year longitudinal study says otherwise. Dr. James Borishade examines why the couples who never fight are the ones you should be worried about.

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God Designed Your Differences on Purpose

What if the differences in your marriage were not problems to solve but features of the design? Dr. James Borishade examines the science and the theology of why your differences exist.

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What Your Childhood Is Still Doing to Your Marriage

The patterns you learned before you were ten years old are still shaping how you love, fight, connect, and disconnect. Dr. James Borishade examines ACEs and what they mean for your marriage.

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The Silent Marriage

What happens when two married people stop talking and start managing? Dr. James Borishade examines the silent marriage and how couples find their way back.

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Why You Keep Having the Same Fight

Research shows 69% of couples' conflicts are perpetual. Dr. James Borishade explains what your recurring argument is actually about.

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You Are Not Drifting Apart

Most couples who are struggling are not broken. They are growing, but nobody taught them what to do when growth pulls two people toward different horizons.

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